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Life Lately


Hey lovelies,


I know it’s been a minute since I posted any new content so I wanted to fill you all in on my life lately. And before you say anything yes I did not include any photos or videos on this post like I normally do because I really wanted this post to be authentic and focus on the content. So I’m going to keep it real with you and I’m posting this tonight!


The past few months have been very stressful and overwhelming for me personally. I think as a 20-something there is this societal pressure to be everything all at once and that can be tough. It can be especially challenging post graduation to know exactly how you’re going to accomplish all your goals to get to the top when you haven’t quite figured out who you are yet.


I am guilty of carrying this mentality since I have always been an overachiever. But I am beginning to understand that it’s okay to take a gap year or semester off from school and work to focus on you. Now I want to refocus my energy on demystifying the post graduation slump and hopefully challenge you to do the same.


Regardless of where you are in your educational endeavors, we are all learning new ways to be the best version of ourselves every day. For me that means doing my best to listen not only with my ears but with my eyes and my gut as well.


LISTEN TO YOUR GUT

One thing I realized after graduating early in December is that the learning doesn’t stop when you get that degree. If anything the real lessons are just getting started when you have to think outside the box.


One mistake I made early on with this blog is trying to only focus on one topic or one type of blog when there are so many different ways to tell my story. I learned that everything around you can be used as a learning tool if you allow it to.


I would encourage anyone who is at a loss for inspiration to pick up a book or read a news article and listen to a podcast that speaks to you.


Tap into that energy that makes you excited to get out of bed in the morning. Also know that the energy you bring into the room shows up in every person you touch and all aspects of your life.


Allow that energy to grow inside of you organically and heal the parts of you that are weak because you are worth it. Most importantly let your passion lead you in new and exciting directions.


UNSUBSCRIBE TO FAILURE

For many of us who are post graduates it can be devastating when you don’t land the dream job you’ve been waiting for and suddenly it feels like your friends are lightyears away from you.


Adding to that a global pandemic and it’s natural to feel like you’re a complete failure. And for me I think what truly stopped me from feeling l